Freelancing from paradise? Living the digital nomad dream? Laptop, latte, life sorted? Maybe sometimes. But the other days freelancing feels less like freedom and more like juggling flaming coconuts while trying to find decent Wi-Fi.
From inconsistent income and client ghosting to surprise burnout in Bali, freelancers — especially digital nomads — face a unique cocktail of challenges. No office. No coworkers. No structure. Just you, your to-do list, and 37 open browser tabs.
If you've ever wondered why you feel stressed while working from a hammock, you’re not alone.
In this post, we’re unpacking 9 real freelancer struggles that hit hard when you’re living the remote life — and sharing practical fixes for each one. Whether you're freelancing full-time or side-hustling your way through Southeast Asia, these tips will help you stay sane, productive, and actually enjoy the freedom you worked so hard for.
1. Feeling Isolated or Lonely as a Freelancer — Here’s What to Do
You’re in a new city, the weather’s perfect, your Airbnb has a hammock… and yet you kind of want to cry into your iced coffee. Why? Because no one tells you how lonely freelancing, especially as a digital nomad, can get.
Sure, you're “living the dream,” but the reality is you’re spending 8+ hours a day in silence, bouncing between cafes where everyone’s wearing noise-canceling headphones. And your friends back home? They’re in a different time zone, busy living their own lives.
Social connections matter
Loneliness isn’t just a mood killer — it messes with your motivation, focus, and mental health. Freelancers without a support system are more likely to burn out, feel disconnected from their purpose, or even give up altogether.
How to fix loneliness
Here’s how to rebuild that human connection (without moving back home if your away):
- Find Your People (Online + IRL): Join digital nomad or freelancer groups on Facebook, Slack, Discord, or Meetup. Look for events like “cowork and coffee” or “freelancers brunch.” Yes, it can be awkward at first. But don't worry. Show up anyway.
- Start a Weekly Ritual: A simple Zoom catch-up with another freelancer can work wonders. Talk about wins, struggles, or what you’re watching on Netflix. Just connect.
- Co-Work, Even Casually: Don’t underestimate the power of being around other humans. Coworking spaces or even a shared table at a café can shift your whole mood.
- Lean Into Local Life: Try a language class, join a local gym, or say yes to that random invite. You didn’t travel across the world to just work and scroll.
- Talk About It: Feeling lonely? Say it out loud — to a friend, your community, even your audience. Vulnerability invites connection.
Interesting tool: Workfrom helps you find work-friendly cafes and coworking spots around the world.
2. No Structure or Routine? Welcome to Freelance Chaos
You wake up whenever. You work from your bed. You answer emails at midnight. You’re technically free — but it’s starting to feel like chaos wrapped in yoga pants.
Sound familiar?
One of the biggest perks of freelancing is also one of its biggest traps: total freedom. No set hours, no commute, no boss breathing down your neck. Amazing… until you realize it’s been three days since you’ve eaten a vegetable or completed a task without distraction.
Why structures matter
Without structure, everything takes longer. You get overwhelmed, your energy dips, and you fall into what we call “freelancer time soup” — where all the days blur together and nothing gets done on time. Not great for your stress levels or your clients.
Mix control and flexibility
Here’s how to reclaim control (without losing your flexibility):
- Design Your Own “Office Hours”: Choose your peak productivity window — morning, afternoon, night owl mode — and protect it. Make it known to your clients too.
- Time-Block Like a Boss: Assign specific blocks of time to focus, email, admin, and breaks. Don’t just “work all day” — plan like a pro (Notion, Google Calendar, or even pen + paper works).
- Create a Start + End Ritual: Maybe it’s a morning walk, a playlist, or making that perfect pour-over. Signal to your brain: “we’re clocking in now.” End your day the same way — shut the laptop, review wins, move on.
- Batch the Boring Stuff: Don’t scatter admin tasks throughout your day. Set one time per week to handle emails, invoices, contracts — get it done, then forget about it.
- Stick to a Weekly Rhythm (Even While Traveling): Moving cities? Changing time zones? Keep a few things constant: your Sunday planning session, your Friday wrap-up, your Tuesday coworking. Tiny rituals = massive clarity.
Useful tools: Notion or ClickUp are great for organizing your week.
3. Inconsistent Income? Fixing Your Freelance Finances
One month you’re rolling in invoices and treating yourself to that fancy espresso machine. The next? You’re side-eyeing your bank account, eating instant noodles, and wondering if your clients forgot you exist.
Welcome to the feast-or-famine cycle — the unofficial mascot of freelance life.
Income matters
Inconsistent income isn’t just stressful — it messes with your head. You start second-guessing yourself, undercharging, saying yes to everything, and losing sleep over “what if next month is slow?” Not exactly the peaceful remote lifestyle you imagined.
Start fixing it
Let’s get your finances back in chill mode:
- Track Your Numbers Like a CEO: Know what’s coming in, what’s going out, and how much you actually need to cover your lifestyle (yes, including flights and iced lattes). Use tools like Wave, Notion, or a simple spreadsheet.
- Build a Buffer Fund: Aim to save at least 2–3 months of expenses. Think of it as your “calm the heck down” fund for slow seasons or surprise adventures.
- Diversify Your Income Streams: Mix up one-off projects with retainers, templates, affiliate income, or digital products. The more income sources you have, the less pressure on any one client. (You'll read about it on this blog soon.)
- Create a Lead Gen System That Runs (Even When You Don’t): Stay visible. Keep networking. Automate follow-ups. Have a system for outreach, referrals, or content that brings new work in — even when you're off the grid.
- Raise Your Rates As You Grow: If you’re fully booked and still stressed, the math isn’t mathing. Time to level up your pricing (especially if you’ve been stuck charging the same for a year).
Tool tip: Fiverr and Upwork can be useful for finding steady work when things get slow.
4. Clients Who Ghost or Micromanage? Here’s How to Deal (Without Losing Your Mind)
One minute, they’re super excited. The next? Vanished. No replies, no feedback, just vibes.
Or worse… they’re too present. Zoom calls for everything. Constant “quick questions.” Telling you how to do the job they hired you for.
Ghosting and micromanaging — two extremes, both equally exhausting. I even have a client who combines both. She disappears and reappears at random times, adding chaos to the routines I work so hard on!
Clients' behaviour matters
Ghosting kills your momentum and delays payment. Micromanagement kills your creativity and adds unnecessary stress. In both cases, you’re left doing emotional labor that no one’s paying you for.
How to deal with it
Let’s fix your client chaos with clear boundaries and better systems:
- Set Expectations Early (and Repeat Them): Create a welcome doc or onboarding email that explains how you work, when you’re available, how feedback works, and what not to do (politely, of course).
- Use Contracts. Always. Even for small jobs. Include payment terms, feedback windows, revision limits, and a clause for ghosting or delays. Tools like Bonsai, Indy, or HelloSign make this easy.
- Create a Feedback Schedule: Don’t leave things open-ended. Set dates like: "First draft on Tuesday, feedback due by Friday." Keeps the project (and your sanity) on track.
- Overcommunicate (But On Your Terms): Use tools like Notion, Trello, or ClickUp to give clients visibility without them needing to ping you every five minutes.
- Fire Clients If You Need To: Seriously. You’re not obligated to keep working with people who don’t respect your time or process. Protect your peace — and your business.
Tool tip: Use HelloBonsai or similar to manage contracts, proposals, and client onboarding like a pro.
5. Tech Issues & Tool Overload? Time to Simplify Your Freelance Stack
You’re juggling 12 apps, 6 Chrome tabs, 4 time zones, and 1 shaky Wi-Fi connection in a co-working space that just started blasting reggaeton. Freelance freedom, right?
Let’s be honest — the tech is supposed to help, but sometimes it just turns into a full-time job managing the tools that manage your work.
Tech matters
When your systems are all over the place, your brain is too. Constantly switching between platforms slows you down, creates friction, and makes it way too easy to miss deadlines, misplace files, or just plain melt down.
How to manage the tools
Let’s streamline the madness:
- Audit Your Tool Stack: What do you actually use daily? What’s collecting digital dust? Cut the clutter and keep what’s essential.
- Pick Tools That Play Nice Together: Use platforms that integrate — like Notion + Google Drive, or Trello + Slack. Bonus points if you can connect them with Zapier or Make.
- Create a Digital HQ: Have one go-to spot for everything — tasks, files, links, notes. Whether it’s Notion, ClickUp, or even a well-organized Drive folder, centralize your brain.
- Back It All Up: If you’re working remotely, assume things will go wrong. Back up files to the cloud and a hard drive. Have a hotspot ready. Download key docs offline. Be ready for tech tantrums.
- Set Boundaries with Notifications: You don’t need to get pinged from 5 apps 24/7. Turn off non-urgent alerts and check things on your schedule.
6. Procrastination & Lack of Motivation? Let’s Get You Back in the Zone
You sit down to work… and suddenly it’s two hours later, your inbox is untouched, and you’ve reorganized your Spotify playlists, deep-cleaned your phone case, and Googled “how long flamingos sleep.” Oops.
Freelancers don’t have bosses or office vibes to keep them on track — which is awesome! And a little dangerous. When motivation dips, there’s nothing stopping you from spiraling into full-on “meh mode.”
Why focus matters
Procrastination can lead to missed deadlines, poor-quality work, and guilt that lingers like a bad hangover. The more it happens, the harder it gets to dig yourself out of the rut. It’s a cycle: delay → stress → crash → repeat.
Fix procrastination challenge
Here’s how to get moving again (without forcing yourself into hustle mode):
- Break Projects Into Tiny Tasks: “Design logo” feels overwhelming. “Sketch 3 rough ideas” feels doable. Shrink the task until your brain says, “Okay, I can handle that.”
- Use the Pomodoro Technique: 25 minutes of focus, 5-minute break. It tricks your brain into starting — and starting is everything.
- Create a Start Ritual: Light a candle. Put on a playlist. Brew a specific tea. Whatever signals to your brain: we’re in work mode now.
- Work During Your Peak Energy Time: Morning person? Night owl? Protect your best hours for deep work. Save admin tasks for the brain fog zone. Read more in this post about chronotypes and productivity.
- Add Light Accountability: Tell a friend what you’re working on. Join a virtual coworking room. Post a goal on Instagram. Just enough pressure to keep you moving — not melting.
- Celebrate Progress (Not Just Results): Did you move the needle today? That counts. Don’t wait for project completion to feel accomplished.
Smart tool: Focusmate pairs you with strangers to work silently together — weirdly effective.
For more tips and tricks, see this post about how to stay productive when working remotely.
7. Managing All the Admin (Endless Freelance Paperwork)
You signed up to design, write, code, consult — not to spend your afternoons buried in invoices, contracts, file-naming drama, or chasing down that one client who still hasn’t paid you.
But here’s the thing about freelancing: you’re not just the talent — you’re also the accountant, assistant, project manager, customer service rep, and occasionally your own IT department. Fun times.
Admin matters
Admin doesn’t directly make you money, but when it’s messy? It costs you money — in missed payments, overlooked leads, project delays, and full-on mental fatigue. Plus, it chips away at your ability to focus and create.
Embrace paperwork
Let’s make admin feel less like a full-time job:
- Batch It Like a Boss: Don’t let admin drip through your whole week. Set one “CEO hour” (or half-day) each week to send invoices, follow up, track expenses, etc. Do it. Be done.
- Create Templates for Everything: Proposals, onboarding emails, client check-ins, invoice reminders — write it once, reuse it forever. Keep them in Notion, Google Docs, or a folder you can grab on the go.
- Use One Central Platform (or at least fewer): Project management? Tasks? Invoicing? Try to keep it all in one tool — or at least limit your stack. Tools like Notion, Bonsai, ClickUp, and Indy are great for this.
- Automate the Repetitive Stuff: Use tools like Zapier or Make to connect your forms, calendars, and folders. Set up auto-reminders for payments. Let the robots help.
- Track Your Money in Real Time: Don’t wait until tax season. Log income and expenses weekly, even if it’s just in a Google Sheet. It’ll save you hours — and stress migraines — later.
8. No Work-Life Balance? Your Laptop Life Shouldn’t Feel Like a 24/7 Job
You moved to Bali (or any other place) for the balance. You wanted slow mornings, sunset swims, midweek hikes.
But somehow, you’re working through weekends, checking Slack at midnight, and answering emails from your phone while waiting for a smoothie bowl. Sound familiar?
Boundaries matter
Without boundaries, freelancing turns into life on call. Your creative energy dips, your relationships take a hit, and that dream lifestyle becomes a digital leash you can't escape. Balance isn’t a bonus — it’s what keeps you from burning out.
How to fix it
Here’s how to take back your time (without burning bridges):
- Set (and Respect) Work Hours: Define when you're available — even if it’s unconventional. Maybe it’s 10–6 in your time zone. Maybe it’s Mon–Thurs only. The key? Communicate it and stick to it.
- Use a “Shutdown” Ritual: End your workday with a clear signal: shut the laptop, go for a walk, write a quick recap. Your brain needs closure to switch out of work mode.
- Take Real Days Off — Guilt-Free: Block out entire days where you don’t touch client work. Rest is productive. No one does great work while running on fumes.
- Don’t Be Afraid to Say “I’m Offline”: You’re allowed to have a life. Let clients know in advance when you’ll be unavailable — they’ll respect your time if you respect it first.
- Redefine “Success” for Yourself: Balance doesn’t mean doing less — it means doing what matters, then closing your laptop and actually living the life you’ve designed. Check out this post about ways to work smarter, not harder.
Tool Tip: Freedom blocks distracting sites during work hours or wind-down time.
9. Hitting a Growth Ceiling? Here’s How to Scale Without Losing Your Mind
You’re booked out, your calendar’s full, you’re making decent money… and yet, something’s off. You’re working nonstop, and your income’s stuck. You’ve built a successful freelance business — but now it’s starting to feel like a fancy 9-to-5 with more stress and fewer boundaries.
Welcome to the freelance growth ceiling.
Growth matters
If your income depends entirely on your hours, there’s a hard cap on how much you can earn — and how much freedom you can have. You’ll eventually hit a wall where the only way to grow is to work more… and that’s not sustainable (or fun).
Break the ceiling
Here’s how to break the ceiling (and finally scale):
- Raise Your Rates (Again): If you’re booked solid and still stressed, it’s time. You’ve grown. Your rates should too. Clients who value you will stay.
- Productize Your Services: Turn your work into clear, packaged offers with fixed pricing and deliverables. It saves time, adds predictability, and makes outsourcing easier.
- Offer Retainers or VIP Days: Move away from one-off projects into recurring income. Or batch your skills into one-day intensives at a premium rate. Less stress, more cash.
- Create Scalable Income: Templates, digital products, mini-courses — anything that lets you earn without trading time for money every time. Start small. Build as you go.
- Collaborate or Delegate: Hire a VA, partner with other freelancers, or build a small team. You don’t have to do everything yourself to succeed.
- Think Like a Business Owner: You’re not “just a freelancer” anymore. You’re running a legit business. Start acting like one — plan, optimize, invest, scale.
If you are considering online business options, you may be interested in this post about low-cost online business ideas.
Freelancing Isn’t Always Easy — But You’re Built for It
Here’s the truth: no one tells you that freelancing comes with plot twists. Yes, you’ve got freedom, flexibility, and the ability to work from anywhere, but you’ve also got ghosting clients, tech meltdowns, motivation dips, and late-night “what am I doing with my life” moments.
You’re not doing it wrong — it’s just part of the game.
The good news? Every single problem on this list has a fix. Some are mindset shifts. Some are systems. All are doable. And the best part? You don’t have to overhaul your life overnight.
Pick one problem. One small shift. Start there.
Because freelancing — especially as a digital nomad — is about designing your life, not just your workday. And the more you simplify, systemize, and protect your peace, the more you can enjoy the freedom you built this life for in the first place.
You’ve got this. And if no one’s told you lately: you’re doing better than you think!
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